Wednesday, December 20, 2006

Movin' on up... well, movin', anyway...

In honor of the fact that I'm moving in real life, the virtual queendom shall be moving as well. (Also, I'm kind of perplexed by this whole Blogger Beta thing, and I've been getting a ridiculous number of spam comments, so I thought I'd give Wordpress a try.) So, please change your links and/or bookmarks to http://iamthelizardqueen.wordpress.com . Added incentive to keep reading: the new place has high-speed internet, so odds are I'll be posting more in the new year. Hope to see you around the blogosphere!

Monday, December 11, 2006

Kids and sex part two: a thirteen-year-old in Utah

I'm not even sure what to say about this one, except that you'd think getting pregnant at 13 would be punishment enough...
Utah Supreme Court justices acknowledged Tuesday that they were struggling to wrap their minds around the concept that a 13-year-old Ogden girl could be both an offender and a victim for the same act - in this case, having consensual sex with her 12-year-old boyfriend.

The girl was put in this odd position because she was found guilty of violating a state law that prohibits sex with someone under age 14. She also was the victim in the case against her boyfriend, who was found guilty of the same violation by engaging in sexual activity with her. ...

The comments came in oral arguments on a motion asking the high court to overturn the finding of delinquency - the legal term in juvenile court for a conviction - against Z.C., who became pregnant after she and her boyfriend engaged in sex in October 2003.

State authorities filed delinquency petitions in July 2004, alleging that each had committed sexual abuse of a child, a second-degree felony if committed by an
adult.

The girl appealed the petition, saying her constitutional right to be treated equally under the law had been violated.

Her motion noted that for juveniles who are 16 and 17, having sex with others in their own age group does not qualify as a crime. Juveniles who are 14 or 15 and have sex with peers can be charged with unlawful conduct with a minor, but the law provides for mitigation when the age difference is less than four years, making the offense a misdemeanor.

For adolescents under 14, though, there are no exceptions or mitigation and they are never considered capable of consenting to sex. ...

Randall Richards, the girl's attorney, argued that prosecuting children under a law meant to protect them is illogical.
Okay, I do have a couple of other thoughts: first, the idea of being thirteen and having sex with a twelve-year-old gives me the heebie-jeebies (and yes, that's the technical term, thankyouverymuch). I know some of my peers and even friends were having sex that young, but... eew. Second, I wonder what kind of sex education these children received, if any? Finally, what possible purpose can prosecuting these children--adolescents now, I suppose--serve? It's not going to prevent other adolescents from having sex with one another. I doubt it's going to prevent Z.C. from having sex with an adolescent again, because, as I mentioned before, if anything were going to do that, it would be the fact that she got pregnant at 13. I agree whole-heartedly with Richards's Spock-like statement: this makes no sense.

Kids and sex part one: a four-year-old in Texas

Before I get into this, I'd like to mention that I'm absolutely in favor of women standing up for themselves when they've been sexually harassed, and I feel that children should be held accountable for their actions (meaning they should be disciplined, reasonably).

That disclaimer aside, I'm a rational person, and I understand that both claims of sexual harassment and disciplinary action can be taken too far. Here's a case in point:
BELLMEAD [TX] -- A four-year-old hugged his teachers aide and was put into in-school suspension, according to the father. But La Vega school administrators have a different story.

Damarcus Blackwell's four-year-old son was lining-up to get on the bus after school last month, when he was accused of rubbing his face in the chest of a female employee.

The prinicipal of La Vega Primary School sent a letter to the Blackwells that said the pre-kindergartener demonstrated "inappropriate physical behavior interpreted as sexual contact and/or sexual harassment."

Blackwell says it's ridiculous that the aide would misread a hug from a four-year-old. Blackwell wrote to administrators demanding that the whole incident be expunged from his son's academic file because his son is too young to know what it means to act sexually. ...

Blackwell got a response from the La Vega administration. The sexual references on the discipline referral were removed. But the thing that makes Blackwell most upset is they told him "your request for an apology by the aide and removal of all paperwork regarding this incident is denied." Now the young student's file will refer to the incident as "inappropriate physical contact." And Blackwell says he will continue to fight the district.
I'm absolutely willing to believe that the child rubbed his face in the female employee's chest. I've had young children do that or similar things to me before. I've babysat older children who were overtly fascinated by the fact that I was on the opposite side of the puberty line from them. I don't have children, and I'm by no means an expert in early childhood education, but it seems to me that a more appropriate response would have been to tell the child that he shouldn't do that, and why, or else talk to his parents. Putting him in in-school suspension (which seems to me to be unnecessary in general when it comes to pre-K students... but maybe I'm being naive) and putting a note in his file (makes me think of Violent Femmes: "I hope you know that this will go down on your permanent record...") strikes me as complete overkill. Somehow I suspect there might be better things for the school to be concerned about... but maybe that's just me.

Tuesday, November 07, 2006

"If you're not going to vote for us, then we don't want you voting at all"

Fun from the Land of Enchantment (yes, that really is the nickname of the state I currently call home):
ALBUQUERQUE (AP) - The Democratic Party of New Mexico is accusing Republicans of providing voters with incorrect information on polling locations in Albuquerque in an effort to cause confusion, but the GOP calls the allegations "preposterous."

The Democrats claim they have learned of several instances in which voters have received phone messages providing incorrect polling information from people who identify themselves as workers at GOP headquarters.

The Democratic Party said in a statement issued Sunday "all voters should be warned that false information is being spread in an apparent desperate attempt to win the election through confusing and potentially illegal actions."

The party plans to seek a restraining order Monday that would prevent the GOP from contacting voters who are not registered Republicans, according to Matt Farrauto, the party's executive director.
Maybe the allegations are false... but when this was mentioned on my local NPR channel this morning, it didn't sound like it. Argh.

If you don't know where you're supposed to vote, here is a good place to start.

Gina asks, and I obey...

Okay, that's obviously an exaggeration. However, she asked that we readers post this piece, written by Dr. Patty at Dolitter, everywhere we can, and I'm only too happy to oblige. Excerpts:
The scene: Two techs vigorously trying to stimulate respiration in two recently extricated newborn pups. A German Shepherd bitch anesthetized on the surgical table, all four legs akimbo. One tech busily manning the anesthesia and instruments. The vet, my colleague, fully gowned and sweating over an open abdomen. And finally, the stunned owner standing nearby, hands over her mouth, looking for all the world like someone who’d like nothing better than to be anywhere else.

Great. Another one. Here’s where backyard breeders and I usually intersect—always under unpleasant circumstances, usually over a disaster C-section.

My colleague is like me. He likes to make them watch the fruits of their irresponsibility. While that might sound cruel—it usually works. ...

The pups were huge and their lungs fluid-filled. They’d been overcooked. This bitch was probably due three full days ago (a very long time when gestation is only 63 days). This owner had completely missed the due date, signs of distress, etc.

By far the biggest mistake inexperienced breeders make is to assume nature will provide. This bountiful life force, she’s always in control and knows just when the little darlings will come into the world, right? Think again. After you breed a seventy-pound bitch to a hundred and ten pound male you’ve just offended Mother Earth. And she’s not so forgiving as the vets you desperately need when it all goes to hell. ...

The bitch's uterus was fluid-filled and unresponsive to oxytocin—it had clearly been over-used and less than cared for. In its current state it was a perfect candidate for pyometra (an overwhelming infection of the uterus). The owner did not, however, grant permission for the recommended spay.

After an hour of working on the pups it became clear we couldn’t maintain their hearts or respiration in the presence of all that fluid. Suction, oxygen, drugs….and then nothing. Yet this owner was undeterred. (Next time I’ll have to keep her inside when she starts to look big.) Great. You do that. We’ll look forward to your next visit.

You’re thinking: There should be a law against that! Nope. That’s not negligence in the eyes of the law. Nor is it considered animal cruelty. If you overstuff your fridge and it breaks that’s your dumb luck. While in Miami-Dade County (where I live) breeders have to obtain a license and fulfill some basic puppy care requirements, no pre-birth regulations are included in the legislation. Dogs are your property. You can f--- them up any way you like as long as you don’t actively do them violence. ...

Until backyard breeders stop doing their thing and until laws can be installed and enforced to make them stop, I’ll have to keep doing these disaster C-sections. There’s no point in denying any animal a life-saving surgery. But I will continue to make those responsible observe the outcome of their ignorance and arrogance. I want the "miracle of life" to be at least a fraction as painful and uncomfortable for them as it was for their pet.
This breaks my heart, and I know that it's the kind of thing that happens all the time. Mohandas Gandhi said that the greatness of a nation can be judged by the way its animals are treated, and the idea that there are people in this country who force their animals to have litter after litter of babies without adequate veterinary care simply so that they can make some extra money, or to show their children "the miracle of birth," or simply because that animal is their property, horrifies me.

In somewhat unrelated news, if you haven't done so already, PLEASE GO VOTE!!

Saturday, November 04, 2006

Depression in schools

I came across this article on CNN.com the other day, and it concerned me. Here are the pertinent details (with emphasis added):
A former student who was barred from the campus of George Washington University and threatened with expulsion after checking into a hospital with depression has settled a lawsuit with the college, both sides announced Tuesday.

The school told Jordan Nott his 2004 hospitalization violated the school's code of conduct because it demonstrated dangerous behavior. He said he hadn't tried to kill himself before the hospitalization, but had been thinking about it because of the suicide of another George Washington student.

He was barred from campus and threatened with suspension or expulsion unless he withdrew. He decided not to fight the charges and transferred to another school a few months later. ...

The Bazelon Center [for Mental Health Law, which represented Nott] is also representing a student at a Connecticut boarding school who was placed on a mandatory leave after seeking treatment for depression.
What bothers me about this is less that it demonstrates the othering of the mentally ill that is all too prevalent in this country--though, of course, that does bother me--but that Nott and the unnamed student in Connecticut are being punished for seeking treatment for their depression. Depression is far from unusual in adolescents and young adults, and I feel that the message that's being sent here is that students should keep their depression to themselves. Nott recognized that he had a problem and took positive action to alleviate that problem, and he was punished for it. I think of the mention of "the suicide of another George Washington student" and wonder what GWU's administration would have done had they known ahead of time that that student was suicidal. Would they have simply threatened him with suspension or expulsion, as they did Nott? If Nott had killed himself after the events of 2004 took place, would the school have felt justified in barring him from campus? The more I think about this, the more it bothers me. While I don't expect universities or other schools to be babysitting their students to watch for signs of mental illness, I think that if a student is willing to seek help for their illness, the university should be supportive, rather than wanting to rid themselves of that student.

You can't be serious

Well, I think this is the worst attack ad I've heard of thus far:
It's an ad that could break your heart.

A sad little girl is sitting on the curb holding an empty leash.

"Where's my dog?" she asks.

The answer, according to a campaign mailer from the Republican State Committee of Pennsylvania, is: Larry Glick probably stole it. ...

Glick said he never stole a dog. He said that 29 years ago, he and his wife were hired as caretakers of a Bucks County estate. The only dog frolicking around the grounds was their black Lab, Magic.

Nevertheless, shortly after they moved away, a sheriff showed up at the door with a lawsuit alleging that Glick made off with Wrango, a pedigreed springer spaniel worth $450.

"We didn't, but we hired an attorney," Glick said. "We never heard anything more about it."
Just when I think attack ads can't surprise me anymore, I'm proven wrong...

(Tipping my tiara to Gina Spadafori)

Wednesday, November 01, 2006

Government money well spent

Abstinence message goes beyond teens:
The federal government's "no sex without marriage" message isn't just for kids anymore.

Now the government is targeting unmarried adults up to age 29 as part of its abstinence-only programs, which include millions of dollars in federal money that will be available to the states under revised federal grant guidelines for 2007.

The government says the change is a clarification. But critics say it's a clear signal of a more directed policy targeting the sexual behavior of adults.

"They've stepped over the line of common sense," said James Wagoner, president of Advocates for Youth, a Washington, D.C.-based non-profit that supports sex education. "To be preaching abstinence when 90% of people are having sex is in essence to lose touch with reality. It's an ideological campaign. It has nothing to do with public health." ...

"The message is 'It's better to wait until you're married to bear or father children,' " Horn said. "The only 100% effective way of getting there is abstinence."
Better how? Better why? What about people who are in committed relationships but choose not to get married? What about single women in their 20s who are financially secure, have a great support network, and simply want a child?
Sarah Brown, director of the National Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy, says abstinence programs are among many messages that have helped reduce teen pregnancy rates. But "the notion that the federal government is supporting millions of dollars worth of messages to people who are grown adults about how to conduct their sex life is a very divisive policy," she says. ...

For last year's state grants, Congress appropriated $50 million. A similar amount is expected for 2007, but the money has not yet been allocated, according to the Administration for Children and Families.
I recognize, of course, that in terms of the federal budget, $50 million is not much money at all. But still, isn't there something better that could be done with that money than telling 20-somethings not to have sex?

Tiara-tip to misty over at Shakespeare's Sister.

A neurologist discusses Michael J. Fox and Rush Limbaugh

I have a few clear biases here: first, I was utterly in love with Michael J. Fox in the mid-80s (come on, who wasn't?). Second, I've disliked Rush Limbaugh since I first heard him in the late 80s or so. Third, my father wrote the following. Still, I found his analysis of the current Fox-versus-Limbaugh debate (which is, of course, much less a debate than a bully picking on a disabled kid) interesting, and thought some of my lovely readers might as well.
As a neurologist it’s been easy for me to recognize Mr. Fox’s states on TV. Once I saw a reporter catch up with him on the way in to speak. Fox was shuffling with a hand tremor typical of Parkinson’s. When speaking he always has the opposite symptoms, the dyskinesias that are side effects of medications that loosen up the Parkinsonian symptoms. It would be typical of patients to take their medications minutes before they need to walk or talk. Apparently that’s what Fox does. For that he’s being attacked?

Several days after saying Fox was putting on an act, Rush Limbaugh said on his show he had received many messages telling him that he had it wrong, that Fox’s symptoms were from too much medicine, not too little. But Limbaugh couldn’t just say he was wrong. Instead he then spoke as if Fox had been manipulating the audience by taking too much medicine. No, Fox does what patients with Parkinson’s have to do to function. They suffer the side effects of medication that allows them to move rather than the Parkinson’s that keeps them rigid.

Some conservative bloggers and commentators are parroting Limbaugh’s recent position. Some are still stuck on Limbaugh’s initial contention that Fox was faking or like Sean Hannity pretending that putting on “an act” is different from “faking”. What power Rush has over Republicans to follow him in ignorance and arrogance.

Then Laura Bush chimes in about manipulating people’s feelings. Strange she wasn’t criticizing her husband’s party for that.

Many politicians are scum when it comes to lying about people. My own observations are that Republicans are worse than Democrats at this, but how can such a thing be quantified? I’m sure it’s a human capacity for arrogance and ignorance, for partisanship and denial that drives this, whoever is the most under that spell. I understand that better than I understand why more people don’t see this. If they did, negative ads would kill a candidate rather than boost a candidate despite some negative backlash as it seems to be now. People either don’t mind the partisanship or they really believe the attacks on others, such as when Republicans imply that voting for Democrats will get you killed or when Democrats suggests all Republicans are scumbags. That’s what I don’t understand. Why is this OK with people? Why do people listen to Rush? Why do they find simplistic and fantastic bombast worth their time?
I've asked those same questions myself enough times that I don't expect I'll ever come up with an answer.

Monday, October 30, 2006

Citizens for Literary Standards in Schools, part two: examining their recommendations

Ah-ha, I bet you thought I was never going to get back to this, eh?

There is a petition that appears on the Citizens for Literary Standards in Schools' website that asks that fourteen books be removed from the curricula of Blue Valley schools. Their argument is that these books "do not pass the selection criterion of Blue Valley policy 4600 which states: 'The absence of vulgar language, sexual explicitness, or violent imagery that is gratuitously employed.'" The books they would like removed are the following: All the Pretty Horses, Animal Dreams, The Awakening, The Bean Trees, Beloved, Black Boy, Going After Cacciato, Hot Zone, I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings, Lords of Discipline, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, Song of Solomon, Stotan, and Boy's Life (I think perhaps they mean Tobias Wolff's This Boy's Life). They suggest the following "educationally rich replacements": The Count of Monte Cristo, David Copperfield, Don Quixote, The Good Earth, Ivanhoe, The Last of the Mohicans, The Mill on the Floss, Moby Dick, The Narrative of Frederick Douglass, One Day in the Life of Ivan Denisovich, The Return of the Native, Robinson Crusoe, Silas Marner, Treasure Island, and Uncle Tom's Cabin.

There are some interesting connections in each list. Of the twelve authors in the first list, that of challenged books, there are four women, eight men; three African Americans, nine Caucasians. With two exceptions, these books were all published in the last half of the twentieth century. By contrast, of the fourteen authors in the second list, three are women, and the cynic in me can't help but wonder how many of the parents in question realize that George Eliot was a woman. There is one (cynic: "token") African American. All but two of the books were published in the nineteenth century or before. All of the challenged authors are American; only four of the recommended authors are, the rest being European.

Perhaps more importantly, I can't help but see a thematic link in the first list: most of these books challenge the status quo of America (and perhaps western civilization in general) in some way. I've read a handful of the books on each list (and I've written a 12-page paper supporting the use of I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings in schools, so I have an obvious bias, if you haven't already noticed), but I was perhaps most interested in the review of The Awakening, which is a book I have a great deal of admiration for. When I first read it in high school, I hated it. I thought it was boring. I don't think I even finished it, and I don't think it's much longer than 200 pages, so that's saying something. So, I'm not entirely sure it should be used in high schools, either, but that's only because I'm not entirely sure a 16-year-old can necessarily appreciate its complexities, as I'd be afraid a teacher would present the feminist and anti-feminist angles but wouldn't touch on the novel's naturalism, which I think gives the novel its most compelling reading. But, I digress. The CLSS's complaint about the book is that it contains "content such as adultery (with no remorse), suicide, and extreme sensuality. It is another dark, depressing book." They're careful to point out that "The book was widely criticized for its frank, open discussion of the emotional and sexual 'needs' of women"... and, of course, the use of quotation marks there jumped out at me. Emotional and sexual "needs"? Hmm. The review goes on to quote Lewis Leary, of the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, who states that the novel is "one of Mrs. Chopin's more successful examinations...whether marriage is or is not 'a wonderful and powerful agent in the development and formation of a woman's character" and that "the submission of women and their struggle against submitting is a theme which pervades much, perhaps all, of Mrs. Chopin's fiction." Set beside other quotations, such as the notation that the protagonist's "awakening, only vaguely intellectual, is disturbingly physical," the previous quotations seem to be warnings to parents. I'm sorry, but I fail to understand why questioning the value of marriage and depicting a woman's struggle against submitting to the men in her life are presented as negatives. The Awakening was published over a hundred years ago, and yet its themes remain quite current. We all know today's divorce statistics, and the fact of the matter is that roughly half of our nation's high school students come from divorced families, so it's more than likely that they're already going to be questioning the institution of marriage, so why not address that in an academic setting? Why sweep it under the rug? That, ultimately, is my argument against keeping most of this material out of schools.

My hometown in the news

From the CNN.com article St. Louis named most dangerous U.S. city:
The safest city in 2005 was Brick, New Jersey, with a population about 78,000, followed by Amherst, New York, and Mission Viejo, California.
Go Mission Viejo! What amuses me is that we moved to Mission Viejo from St. Louis...

Saturday, October 28, 2006

Adopion issues

So... why, exactly, do people say that same-sex couples aren't as qualified to adopt children as heterosexual couples?

From CNN.com: Mother guilty of killing, abusing boy, 7

LANSING, Michigan (AP) -- A mother who claimed that her missing 7-year-old son had run away was found guilty Friday of his murder.

Lisa Holland cried quietly as jurors found her guilty of first-degree felony murder and child abuse in the death last year of her adopted son Ricky. ...

Her husband testified that on July 1, 2005, he came home from an errand and found Ricky dead in bed, with vomit and traces of blood around his mouth, and his wife screaming she "didn't mean to do it."

He said that a week earlier, he had returned from military training in Virginia to find the boy with a cut on his head, listless and unable to walk. He said he didn't take him to a doctor because he didn't want a confrontation with his wife and thought his son would get better. ...

The prosecution said Ricky likely suffered a brain injury a week or more before he died, and his parents let him die a slow death.

The Hollands became Ricky's foster parents in 2000 and adopted him in 2003, the year after the parental rights of his biological parents were terminated because of neglect.

The couple also adopted Ricky's three younger siblings and in addition had a child of their own.
Now, this is obviously an extreme case, and I know that for every horrible set of adoptive parents you hear about, there are thousands of wonderful, generous, loving adoptive parents. Still, how would it be harmful to increase the pool of potential adoptive parents such that parents (of any sexual persuasion) that might ultimately do harm to the children they adopt might perhaps, just perhaps, have less of a chance of getting to adopt children? Maybe I'm being too optimistic. Maybe 99.9% of adoptive parents who end up harming the children they adopt seem heaven-sent right up until they're arrested. But I can't help wondering...

Pirates!

Yar. You know I couldn't pass this up...

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I just couldn't resist...

I'll get back to the politically-motivated posts in a bit, but I couldn't resist posting this. Those who know me personally will likely recognize why I'm so incredibly amused by it.

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